IF THEY LOVE WHY CHEAT? FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER The topic of infidelity is a complex and emotionally charged one. Do they really love you? if they love you why cheat? it can leave you feeling hurt, confused, and unsure of what to do next. One of the most common questions people ask themselves when they learn their partner is cheating is, “Do they really love me if they’re doing this?” The answer to this question is not a simple one, as it depends on a variety of factors. First, it’s important to understand that people cheat for a variety of reasons. Some people cheat because they’re unhappy in their current relationship and they’re looking for something more. Others[…]

CHEATING ON YOU? FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER Infidelity is a painful and difficult experience for anyone to go through. If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, it can be a confusing and overwhelming time. However, there are certain signs that you can look for to determine if your partner is indeed being unfaithful. While in this story we only included 7 of the reasons why, you can see in Lachlan Brown’s article up to 20 ways (1) of how to tell if they are cheating on you. CHANGES 3. In their schedule: If your partner starts working longer hours or starts taking more business trips, it may be a sign that they’re using that time to[…]

WHY DO MARRIED MEN USE TINDER FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER Tinder is a popular dating app that allows users to connect with potential partners in their area. It is not uncommon for married individuals to also use the app. This can be a confusing and controversial topic. Many people assume that someone who is married, should not be looking for romantic connections outside of their marriage. But, there are many reasons why men who are married choose to use Tinder. To find out why read the article that Bahkti Paun Sharma wrote ; where real men tell us why they use Tinder. NOT HAPPY? One reason why men who are married might use Tinder is because they are unhappy[…]

THE DATING REVOLUTION FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER It is not just impressive but downright alarming how our effort to find a mate has undergone a dating revolution over just the last 50 years. Not to say the last 70 years. Matter of fact is that the greatest change has happened in the last 10 years. A quick stroll down memory lane.  Back in time in the early 1900’s dating required that the man ask permission to date the daughter, get the ok, and then be accompanied by a chaperone.  Can you imagine that? LONG TIME AGO IN THE 20’S A little later I the 20’s and because the coming off the car; came the beginning of the modern date.[…]

PROSTITUTION IN SOCIAL MEDIA AND DATING APPS. FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER Times have changed, and even the sometimes called “oldest profession”, has gone digital through social media. Yes, prostitution in social media and dating Apps., are now inexorably linked. Couples run the risk of infidelity, of which there are many forms. On occasion, couples will fracture because of a “third” in discord. But on other occasions it happens because one pays for sex. The “oldest profession in the world”; continues to grow, but now that you no longer have to go to the streets or a brothel, it is now easier. Sounds ugly but now you can have a catalogue online in Tinder, Facebook and elsewhere.  COULD YOUR MATE[…]

ADULTERY’S TERRIBLE CONSEQUENCES………… ON FAMILY FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER We will now present a synopsis of adultery and its terrible consequences on family and especially on the children. ADULTERY IS NOT VICTIMLESS In his article, Abe Kass (1) of 5 Negative effects Adultery has on a Family, summarizes the most important impacts of adultery. The partner is not the only victim. The cheater always has an excuse for their behavior.  No excuse is valid; whether it is that sex is not good, poor communication, spends too much, is irresponsible, is controlling, etc.… the only one responsible is the cheater. Thereby all family members are hurt; notwithstanding it is obviously undeserving. No one has anything to gain. There is only[…]

FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER SURVIVE INFIDELITY? Dealing with Infidelity is Challenging because of the tortuous thoughts that come once the affair is over. These are the kick-off words of Abe Kass (1) in his article on the subject.  Believe it or not, infidelity is a relationship.  It is one that will hurt everyone involved. The entire family, the children and even the extended family suffer. To survive infidelity poses a major challenge to everyone. However, the one most damaged is the partner, who in the end is the main surviving victim. When you start a love relationship, there is an understanding that neither will become intimately involved with another person. When this understanding is broken, you are shattered in[…]

CHEAT AND GET EVEN FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER You have been in a relationship for a long time, and perhaps it is monotonous. But you love that person and despite the difficulties you are still together. At some point when the relationship was about to burst; you decided to confess that you had not been totally honest with him/her. With a knot in your throat, and with the fear that it could all end, you decide to tell them you were unfaithful.  It is at the most critical moment when there is no turning back. What you did will either make the couple stronger, or it will break. It is here when such a transgression happens, that the victim[…]

CHEATING WITHIN THE EXTENDED FAMILY FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER A subject not usually addressed and not many statistics available, but cheating within the extended family is real. Whether it be a cousin, an in-law, a brother-siter of your partner, a stepsister/stepbrother, and so on. While apparently rare it is not as rare as one might think. Abe Kass published in Psych Central (1) published that “husbands do sleep with sisters-in-law; wives sleep with brothers-in-law; and cousins, nieces, nephews and other relatives are physically and emotionally drawn to extended family members”. Infidelity when discovered is messy but this is a situation significantly more devastating than any of the other of its nature. Try to imagine that your partner slept with[…]

ONCE A CHEATER ALMOST ALWAYS………. A CHEATER FIND ANY ONE ON TINDER Humans are social beings and of many customs. That is why when we are in a long-term relationship, and our partner has been unfaithful to us, we prefer to forgive and continue. Why continue the relationship just because we are used to it?; Perhaps it is best to begin by going separate ways and starting from scratch. We have just too many things we put on the scale, before terminating our relationship. Among others are; losing stability, having to find another mate, hoping they are what they seem to be, having to deal with the cost of life without the help of your partner, the cost of the[…]