CHEATING ON YOU

CHEATING ON YOU?

Infidelity is a painful and difficult experience for anyone to go through. If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, it can be a confusing and overwhelming time. However, there are certain signs that you can look for to determine if your partner is indeed being unfaithful. While in this story we only included 7 of the reasons why, you can see in Lachlan Brown’s article up to 20 ways (1) of how to tell if they are cheating on you.

CHANGES

1. Changes in behavior: If your partner suddenly starts acting differently, it may be a sign that they’re hiding something. They may start staying out later, being less communicative, or being more secretive about their activities. They may also start paying more attention to their appearance or start dressing differently.
2. In communication: If your partner starts avoiding communication or becomes evasive when you ask them questions, it may be a sign that they’re hiding something. They may start avoiding phone calls or text messages, or they may start lying about their whereabouts.

3. In their schedule: If your partner starts working longer hours or starts taking more business trips, it may be a sign that they’re using that time to see someone else. They may also start canceling plans with you or making excuses to avoid spending time with you.

4. Their appearance: If your partner starts paying more attention to their appearance or starts dressing differently, it may be a sign that they’re trying to impress someone else. They may start wearing nicer clothes, buying new cologne or perfume, or getting new hairstyles.

5. Social media activity: If your partner starts spending more time on social media or starts messaging people more, it may be a sign that they’re communicating with someone else. They may also start unfollowing you or deleting comments that you’ve made on their posts.

ATTITUDE

• They become distant: If your partner starts to become distant and emotionally unavailable, it may be a sign that they’re not as invested in the relationship as they used to be. They may start avoiding physical contact, start being less affectionate, or start being less communicative. There are many emotional tell-tell signs they may be cheating on you. Raymond Green’s article published in Today all day, ventures into more than 30 of these emotional signs.

SECRETS

• They have a lot of secrets: If your partner starts keeping a lot of secrets or becomes more secretive, it may be a sign that they’re hiding something. They may start locking their phone, hiding their emails, or start being more secretive about their activities.

CONCLUSION

It’s important to note that these signs don’t necessarily mean that your partner is cheating. These signs can also be caused by other factors such as stress, work, or personal issues. However, if you notice a combination of these signs, it may be worth having a conversation with your partner to see what’s going on.

If you do suspect that your partner is cheating, it’s important to approach the situation with care and sensitivity. Avoid accusing them of cheating without evidence and try to have an open and honest conversation about your concerns. If they are cheating, it’s important to consider the state of your relationship and what you want for your future.

It is also important to take care of yourself during this difficult time. Infidelity can be emotionally draining, and it’s important to surround yourself with supportive friends and family. You may also want to consider seeking counseling or therapy to help you process your feelings and make sense of what’s happening.

In conclusion, infidelity can be a difficult and painful experience. However, by being aware of the signs, you can protect yourself from being blindsided by your partner’s infidelity. If you do suspect that your partner is cheating, it’s important to approach the situation with care and sensitivity, and to consider the state of your relationship and what you want for your future. It’s also important to take care of yourself during this difficult time and surround yourself with supportive friends and family.